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May 07, 2008

The Sleeper (Or, Why Adlai is The Best Baby Ever)

Because I lamented our lack of sleep a few days ago, it should be mentioned that Adlai has been waking only once, for a 2 am nursing, for the past two nights. This is great stuff. We credit this change to forcing him to put himself to sleep from a completely awake state. He hates this but, hey, it works. It's also possible he agrees with his brother and mother that stomach sleeping is super comfortable. In any case, our sanity has almost returned. If you want to trick us into making stupid decisions, now would be the time; a few days from now we may be too well rested.

May 06, 2008

Adlai, The Swaddle Free Vegetable Eater

There is a lot to say - I've just been holding out for photos - I know you'd rather see the photos, right? Alas, the photos (and video) are still locked away in Digital Cameraland - a place they remain until I manage to find an hour or more to myself.

In any case, Adlai B. Kagledom had his first vegetable on Saturday. Since peas went over so well as a first vegetable with Simon, we decided to try sweet potatoes with Adlai. He hated them. DIS-GUS-TING. It was very amusing. He'd open his mouth tentatively, slowly swallow while giving us the most sour expression, and then shiver from head to toe. But because he is one of our boys, he would still open his mouth for more! more! more disgusting food. By the third night, he found the sweet potatoes much more palatable.

In other news, newly crazy-about-the-rolling Adlai started sleeping on his stomach this weekend. To manage this he had to kick himself out of his torso swaddle which means (drum roll please) we're done with swaddling! This is good news because it was really annoying to reswaddle him every time he woke up at night. He also seems to be falling asleep without the pacifier on occasion - getting rid of it will be our next step in making him a habit free kid.

Saturday Adlai and I stayed out of the pool due to minor colds. Honestly, I can't remember the rest of Saturday - I was sick but we must have done something. Sunday we packed ourselves into the car and drove to Sacramento for Adlai's first long car trip. We feared the worse (our ears still ring from the hours of screaming we endured with Simon) but Adlai was amazing. We didn't hear a peep out of him the entire trip there. On the way back however, I nearly dislocated my shoulder trying to jingle toys in front of him and find and replace his pacifier over and over. Near the end of the trip, when I was about to give up and let him scream, I handed him the unopened snacks - a granola bar, a bag of oatmeal balls, and a fruit twist - he found them highly entertaining until he passed out twenty minutes before we arrived home.

While in Sacramento, the boys met a few of my friends and played with their offspring and we saw Sarah star as Little Red Riding Hood in "Into The Woods - Junior." Both Adlai and Simon found the play fascinating. About three-quarters of the way through Adlai became tired and we danced in the back and he played with Grammy until the end. Simon was thrilled to be related to a star... (Pictures by Grammy)

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May 01, 2008

Show Off

A couple of months ago Adlai rolled back to front - but only once. Tonight Adlai rolled back to front and front to back and back to front over and over and over again. He is very proud of himself. And now that he has reached this milestone maybe he'll let us sleep for more than two hours in a row. He has been very wake-y up-y lately. And, holy rolling babies, it feels like, if we don't get some sleep soon, we're going to die. Or maybe our eyeballs will just dry out and we'll go blind. It's also possible we'll kill each other in the middle of the night fighting over whose turn it is to try to get the baby back to sleep.

*UPDATE*
Nope. No sleep.

April 30, 2008

Adlai the Four Month Old

It's been a while since we reported just on Adlai's doings and four-month-old Adlai is a pretty interesting little guy. First off, he's REALLY happy. Sure, I'm biased, but I'm not sure I've come across such a happy baby. He's not that kind of quiet smiley observant happy, he's full bodied squealing loudly like-a-teenage-girl-at-a-rock-concert happy. When I come home from work he wraps his arms around my neck, squeals loudly, and attacks my shoulders with his open mouth. That's his gentle way of saying "BOOBS. PLEASE. NOW."

He's also pretty clever. Grandmother put him down for a nap last week and came back to find that he had kicked out of his blanket, rotated to face his musical crib aquarium, and was kicking the shell which turns the music on and off. At first we were dubious that this was intentional but a week later (after almost always finding him over in that side of the crib with his feet kicking the same toy) we're sure he wants the music on and has taken matters into his own hands (or, rather, feet).

We've been feeding him rice or oatmeal cereal for three weeks now and often it seems like his stomach is a bottomless pit. He easily makes it through a cup of powder mixed with six ounces of formula. Since servings are supposed to be measured in tablespoons, not cups, we're impressed by his intake. And food can't be spooned in fast enough - between spoonfuls he opens his mouth as wide as possible and yells if, heaven forbid, I should take a bite of my own food before giving him another. He also gets upset watching us eat breakfast and lunch - times when he doesn't get his bowl of "real" food. Unfortuantely, he also drinks a ton so the pump and I have become fast friends once again. We started the food because his doctor suggested he needed some more calories to fatten him up but, amazingly enough, he doesn't seem to have bulked up at all. He does, however, appear to be getting taller by the second. One of these weeks he is going to grow right out of his special "for tall babies" infant car seat as well as his swing and his bouncy chair.

He's heavy into the teething at this point and almost always has his entire fist in his mouth. He finds sounds funny - the shaking ice last Sunday was falling-over-funny as were the old fashioned car horns in the Mountain View Spring Parade on Saturday. One of the drivers, noticing his delight at the sound, gave Adlai his own honk as he drove past. He's getting better at holding and shaking his own toys but finds his animated big brother Simon the ultimate in entertainment. Over the past few days he has started to make motions toward crawling. He can lift his rear end up and sit on his knees or prop himself up on his straightened arms but not both at the same time and he can't do either for very long. He's not much of a bouncer but prefers to rotate his legs in the air as if running or, if standing, he stomps his feet forward as if he's going to proudly walk right over to the action on his own. Since Simon didn't start crawling until six months, we're pretty sure we have a at least a month and a half before we need to worry about mobility. It does seem like time is flying this time around.

April 29, 2008

Mom vs. Dad

There are, of course, a number of things different about having Matthew as a stay-at-home-dad versus me as a stay-at-home-mom: With Matthew home Adlai doesn't get his daytime milk fresh out of the dairy, you won't find the iPod blaring the same song over and over and over while Simon dances around the living room, and toys tend to remain where ever they land until bedtime. To be fair, I don't play tickle monster, throw them up in the air, or have the patience to let Simon help me cook. But the most outwardly obvious sign that Matthew is in charge of the children might be their attire. The first day I left for work Matthew dressed Adlai in an outfit and socks that were two sizes too big. The second day I went to work, I found Adlai's outfit on backwards. Where I try to make their shirts, pants, and socks match, Matthew chooses clothing "themes" - you might find Adlai in three different types of stripes or four different shades of blue. Yesterday I came home to find Simon in some longish fitted shorts that I didn't recognize. He'd been wearing them all day and they were completely filthy so I took them off and inspected the tag, which read "size 6 months."

April 28, 2008

Returning to Work After a Four Month "Break"

I've been working full time for an entire week now. Oddly enough, I'm working on the same project I was working on when I left and have been given back most of the work I handed off to others. I really like designing interfaces for mobile devices and I enjoy my coworkers so, if I had to return, I'm glad it is to this work and to these people. I never thought I was cut out to be a stay-at-home mom but things have changed over the years and now I'm certain I'd be happy to be at home full time. It was really hard to come to work last Monday. By the end of the week, I counted my success by not having broken down in front of my coworkers once. Adlai is a good sleeper by baby book standards - he usually gives us one burst of 6 hours - but that stretch ends at 1 am after which point he often wakes up two or three more times and sometimes doesn't want to go back to sleep. So my emotions are tied up in complete zombie-like exhaustion. I love every minute of Adlai but a big part of me wants the minutes to pass by faster until we reach his ability to sleep 10 to 11 hours.

Matthew and I have an arrangement that we decided upon before the wee Simon was a mere speck and it has worked really well for almost four years. Obviously, since we didn't initially plan to have a second child, we didn't expect for Matthew to need to take SO much time off. But his part-time job and side projects with other game enthusiasts gives him enough stress to make him feel like a grown-up. I'm eternally grateful to him for "disrupting" his career to stay at home. I don't know how I'd ever be able to justify leaving the boys with non-family on a full time basis.

Anyway, there was one point last week when I did break down (maybe more than one but memories are fuzzy without sleep). I called Matthew from the "Mother's Room" (i.e. the dairy, the pump room, lactation central) and he told me that, on the way to school, Simon had been playing with a maze game. There is a big silver ball in the center and the goal is to get all the little balls through the maze to the big ball. Simon said "I have to get the little balls to the big ball because they miss their Mama." Simon wasn't awake when I left for work most of last week - including that morning - so, when Matthew told me about the maze, tears flowed along with the milk.

April 27, 2008

Because it is About to be Monday Again

Here's a video taken this afternoon of Simon jiggling ice in front of Adlai to make him laugh. Sorry about the camera angles - I was holding Adlai and filming him at the same time.

April 25, 2008

The Benefits of Breastfeeding

I've just been excused from jury duty by checking the box "breastfeeding mother." I guess they don't want to halt trials every few hours to give mothers the chance to pump.

April 20, 2008

Happy Passover


Adlai gets into the spirit.


Simon "reads" from his Hagaddah.


Simon cracks the egg on Matthew's head.


Simon found the afikomen!

And Simon took his first stab at asking the "four questions"...

He says (something like):
"Why is this night different from all other nights?"
"Why do we eat bitter herbs?"
"Why do we eat charoset?"
"Why do we recline?"
"Why do we eat Matzoh?"

April 19, 2008

Final Weekend Before Returning to Work

Friday was my last week day at home. That's depressing. It was also pretty depressing that the Thursday night Adlai seemed to have forgotten how to sleep on his own. We fixed that by deciding right then and there to sleep train him. An entire night of crying and comforting later, he seems to not only have learned how to sleep on his own but is almost cured of swaddling (we're now just swaddling his torso). We were very tired Friday so we mostly spent the day at home doing our usual things and napping. We did pick up a used jogging stroller so Matthew can get some exercise with Adlai while Simon is at school.

Today we took both boys to the pool and, while Simon was having his lesson, I got into the pool with Adlai for his first swim class. He was perplexed by the experience - completely relaxed but concentrating very hard the entire time.

After swimming, Simon and I built a fence to keep people out of our newly planted herb garden. The ties were made from Matthew's ripped shorts. Simon thought that was a pretty interesting way to use old shorts.

Tonight we had a great time celebrating Calvin's fourth birthday. It's hard to believe these little guys are getting so old.

Tomorrow: Passover!

April 18, 2008

Four Months Old

Happy Four Month-a-versary Baby A.B.! When we've recovered from our sleepless night (which was entirely your fault), we'll write more.

Hey, how about that Boppy Photo Collection?

Or, a video of the four month Boppy photo shoot?

And, as always, don't forget to check out the other million photos of Adlai (updated regularly) on Flickr!