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March 15, 2009

Adlai the Heavy Drinker

A lot has been going on in the world of Adlai B. Last week he learned how to drink from a straw (so fun!), he spent lots of time with his buddy, Ben, spent time with both sets of grandparents, went down the big slide all by himself (on his tummy, feet first), played well and for long periods with his brother, had his first big hair cut (and enjoyed the experience), and spoke lots of new words. Some of his favorite things to say are "Wow!" "Stinky!" "Wuz dat?" "Hey dare" "edy et GO!" but he still comes up with an impressive phrase every now and then. Yesterday, Matthew played the notes for "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star" when Adlai piped up with "How I wonder what you are..."

He has been less cranky this past week which may have something with his increasing ability to communicate. He now uses the sign for "more" (and says the word as well) as well as the sign and words for "all done."

Tonight, before bed, Adlai was sipping some water out of a cup (and spilling a lot on the floor) when we started to record...

March 09, 2009

And Then the Rain Stopped

By Saturday morning the weeks of seemingly endless rain stopped and the sun came out, so the boys went outside to play...

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Previously, play looked a lot more like this...

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or this...

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(That's Matthew wrapped in a blanket at the bottom of the pile.)

or, heaven forbid, this...

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We actually do go outside to play in the rain but that almost always ends with baths and lots of laundry. It is never as much fun for Matthew and I so, even if the boys don't care, we are glad that it is finally sunny.

Saturday we had Simon's friends and their families over for a potluck dinner. Much fun was had and even some attempts at yelling adult conversation over the sound of six squealing kids in the background. Once our friends had gone, Adlai made the strange transformation into deliriously-happy-mode. I think I may have mentioned just a few times that dear sweet Adlai has been just a tad cranky as of late. So when he was suddenly full of smiles and enthusiasm and pucker-up kisses it was, well, odd. We haven't decided if he was excited by having friends over or by having friends leave. In any case, the enthusiasm didn't continue past Saturday evening but it was a nice look into a possible future.

Sunday we were up extra early because, despite going to bed "an hour later", Adlai has somehow managed to work his biological clock around the new 5 am (which feels like 4 am). This is a horrible development which we are desperately hoping to cure. (Lack of sleep may also be preventing the wee one from being perpetually happy.) In any case, Adlai had a good time at breakfast with former neighbors and a great time in San Francisco with the Feefadders. It was only really when he returned to the comfort of his own home that he and Simon were able to be truly miserable. We cooked and fed the boys over the constant screaming/crying/yelling, bathed them, and lovingly tucked them into their beds only to be awoken at 2 am with a nightmare, and 5 am with the crying-that-doesn't-end.

New things for Adlai: he puckers up to kiss, he will snuggle with anyone who lays down on the floor, he has become very opinionated about his books, his food, and his activities in general, he loves to be outside, he loves Matthew more than anything in the whole wide world and doesn't ever want to NOT be in his arms, he counts "1, 2, 3" along with us, and he mimics us as we yell "stinky!" when changing his diaper.

March 04, 2009

Growing Boys

Adlai appears to be on a growth spurt - eating everything in sight. His favorite foods these days include bread, fish, and tangy fruit. The other day he enjoyed sucking on half of a lime.

In the mean time, Simon had his 4-5 year check up. He is in the 96th percentile for height (over 45 inches) and the 93rd percentile for weight (nearly 50 lbs). This is on par with last years statistics. He was given five shots which required three adults: two to hold him, one to administer the pain. It didn't go well. At all. We're moving on.

Since giving up a nap, Adlai has been super-extra-super cranky but also sleeps through the night (though, oddly, he won't sleep past 5ish AM). We're hoping he will get used to the new routine soon and that he will let us sleep in before we crack.


March 02, 2009

Cranky Fun

Both boys have been sick and, at times, super cranky. We're also switching Adlai to one nap since he recently stopped sleeping through the night AND started waking for the day at 5 am. He would really prefer to wake up at 5 am and nap at 9:30 am but we won't let him - no, no, no! Sick, tired, and teething makes for a toddler who bursts into tears at the drop of a hat or a ball or a piece of paper five houses away.

This toddler, however, slept through the night last night and woke up after 6 am so we're not giving in.

There have, of course, been some happy moments this past week. We've been to the park. Adlai reconnected with his friend Ben (who is awake in the mornings and asleep in the afternoons). The Feefadders came to play. And I'm sure we've done other things that I just don't recall.

Oh! Here is something. Simon directed and Matthew animated the following movie:

Simon's Squirrel

Enjoy. (I did.)

February 26, 2009

It's Official

Simon's EEG revealed only normal brain patterns. We still suspect, however, that he has an extraordinary brain.

Both boys have the flu. Coincidence? A side effect of time in the ER? Simon's case is very minor. Adlai's case is not - making him a very unhappy baby.

February 22, 2009

Friday

I imagine most of you know about our day last Friday, but stories tend to change as they migrate from one person to the next. Herein lies the full story:

Around 11 am on Friday Simon's teacher called Matthew to let him know that something was wrong. Simon had been painting when he stood up, dropped his paintbrush, looked at the top of the wall and stayed that way - unresponsive to voice or touch - for about five minutes. One teacher called another teacher over and then they called a third (his favorite teacher from last year). By that time, he had started to come out of the episode and sat with Teacher Laura and said "that was weird." She spent time with him and he talked to her about the book they had read the day before and how scared it had made him. About forty-five minutes passed before he relaxed. Both Matthew and I went to the school to find out what was going on but by that time he was back to regular Simon.

I called the advice nurse and she said it was probably nothing and just to watch. She thought my idea of leaving an email with his out-of-town doctor was a good one, so I did. Later Simon told Matthew that before it happened his head hurt and he said: "I wanted to take my brain out." I included that bit of information into my note and, shortly thereafter, Kaiser called and said we needed to take Simon to Emergency.

The boys picked me up at work for an evening at the hospital. Matthew and I pretended to be calm and cheerful and Simon was reflecting our attitude. He got a real kick out of explaining his feelings to every doctor and nurse who came in to ask. He told one doctor that the experience was "like I was a statue." He told another that when he eats something hot steam shoots out of his ears. They did a lot of light tests, tests on his ability to push against them with his arms, hands, feet, and legs. They took his oxygen levels and heart rate. All signs pointed to Simon being a very healthy boy.

A pediatric neurologist was called. They didn't want to do a CAT scan unless he thought it necessary. Because of the headache (which Simon reported was still a little there) he decided it was important to take a look as soon as possible. Adlai couldn't stand being awake any longer so Matthew took him home to sleep. Luckily, Grandparents Kagle were in the general vicinity and stopped by to babysit while Matthew returned to the hospital.

Simon was excited about the CAT scan until it was time to get on the table. I had to lift him up and then lay on him while the tech placed his head between the two sides of the plastic head holder. He knew he needed to be still so once he was there, he closed his eyes and the only movement he made was the involuntary tremble of his cheeks and lower lip. He squeezed my hand while the machine went back and forth over his head. It only took two minutes to complete the scan. At the end, he was clearly relieved and very, very proud. The machine looks a heck of a lot like a large donut and, since then, he has excitedly talked about being in the donut machine to all who ask.

While we waited for the results (and for Daddy to return from home), Simon and I were upgraded to an emergency room with a flat screen TV attached to a swing arm. It only had 20 channels, none of them age appropriate, so we watched five minutes of Wheel of Fortune, which Simon thought was GREAT, and ten minutes of Wife Swap, which we both found discussion worthy - if nothing else. The doctor arrived and showed us the images (at Simon's request) of Simon's perfect brain. The next step is an EKG of his head some time next week. We expect that to be normal as well. What Simon seems to have had is called an Absence Seizure:

In absence seizures, the person may appear to be staring into space with or without jerking or twitching movements of the eye muscles. These periods last for seconds, or even tens of seconds. Those experiencing absence seizures sometimes move from one location to another without any purpose. Under normal circumstances thalamocortical oscillations maintain normal consciousness of an individual, however in certain circumstances the normal pattern can become disrupted; thereby leading to an episode of absence.

Only it was a very long one and included a headache.

Apparently these things run on my side of the family. Hopefully he won't have another seizure but, if he does, he will likely grow out of them and (very hopefully) we won't have to take any action.

Simon returned home around 9 pm full of excitement from the experience and thrilled to see his Grandparents and his Cousin Brad who had just flown in from Seattle. The next morning Matthew took him out for donuts for being so brave in the "donut machine."

That was, of course, after Adlai woke up crying at 4:50 am - he and his bed completely covered in dried vomit.

Both boys were healthy Saturday (Cousin Brad came back to play) and today Simon has come down with what is, so far, a minor cold (but we still managed to have a great time at the Aviation Museum).

That, in itself, is good news but if you need more...

- Simon is number 5 on the wait list for a school we suspect he will love. (The wait list is more than one hundred strong - we entered the random lottery not expecting much.)

- Adlai is amazing at placing nesting cups in the correct order.

- We finally made tooth-brushing a family affair this weekend - now that Adlai has enough teeth.